ABOUT ME

Based in Southern California, I am a Somatica and tantra trained embodiment, intimacy, and relationship Coach, DV and SA survivor, Single mom, and fitness enthusiast, with a passion for helping people embody their highest timelines and become their most authentic selves.

My practice is rooted in open and reciprocal vulnerability. Grounded in empathy, the vulnerable and intimate connections that I formed in my training helped me to rapidly uncover new and more authentic layers of myself. Peeling away the old to make way for the new, without ever judging who I was before or the many times I stumble on my way to becoming who I will be.

For many years I denied myself acknowledgement of the reality of my experiences. I allowed myself to suffer silently, repressing and dissociating. I packed tidy little boxes filled with my monsters and I lined them up just out of reach. I quietly assumed that everyone around me was right, that I was too much, that my needs didn’t matter and neither did my monsters.

Eventually I found therapy, but even there I underplayed my suffering. I overintellectualized it, made excuses for my abusers and believed the lies that my shame told me. Trying to overcome my shame of existing as a woman in the world with a body and a desire for mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy was a tall ask. I wanted to heal my SA trauma, I wanted to take back my autonomy, I wanted my needs to matter.

As I started exploring my own expansion, I wanted to tap into the energy of creation, the energy that lies in sexuality, sensuality, orgasm, connection to self, connection to other, and connection to the divine universal energy. Claiming ownership of my desires and needs and learning how to harness that energy to fuel my growth, creativity, expansion, and capacity for love has been a part of my journey to healing. Keeping a steady supply of my own erotic energy pulsing through my veins and into every piece of who I am, is a part of my journey to wholeness. Sharing that wholeness and healing power with men and women so that they may bloom and grow and walk through the world in embodiment of their inner god/goddess is the essence of my practice.

See how we can work together to bring your most embodied self to the surface, release your limiting beliefs about love and intimacy, and create self love and safety within your nervous system.

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TESTIMONIALS

Victoria is extraordinary, she is a true healer. She has helped me move through shame, trauma and contributed to rewiring my nervous system with so much empathy. After a lot of emotional work, we are now moving to exploring pleasure in ways I didn’t know existed. So much to look forward to! My inner erotic goddess is awakened.
Her personality, calm and poise made me feel at ease the minute I met her. She provides a safe container rooted in vulnerability and mutual trust. Her method is holistic, mixing talk therapy and exercises focusing on the body. She is always tracking for what is happening within and moving at my pace, while challenging me when she feels that I’m ready for it. I’ve made more progress in six months than I have in 10 years of therapy, and I can’t wait to see what unfolds next.
Marion, New York
It’s taken me a long time to write this, not because I lack positive things to say, but because my experience with Gina has been so profoundly life-changing. When I began working with Gina, I was unclear on my intentions and unsure how to set boundaries — I just knew that the trajectory of my life was changing and that I desperately needed a container of safety in which to figure shit out. Enter Gina Victoria.
From our very first session it was clear that I was in a judgement-free zone where I could explore what it meant to be the truest version of myself. Though parts of me have a hard time trusting others, the sense of emotional safety I feel with Gina allows me to deeply delve into the core of who I am, what I want, and how to get there. Gina freely shares her expansive and wonderful energy, allowing me to feel a sense of security and comfort that I’ve never before experienced.
Over time I’ve come to see the beauty and value in myself. I’m defining what it means to live on my own terms and for my highest good, and Gina has been instrumental in encouraging me to hone into all those wonderful things without bypassing the murky bits that also exist, because those are also part of me.
If you’re looking for someone to form a genuine human connection with, someone who will question you with direct, loving kindness, someone who is open to whatever ideas/thoughts/angst you bring to the session, then Gina Victoria is the person for you. Sometimes it’s hard to invest in ourselves, especially if we’re not certain we’re worth it. You are worth it. And working with Gina is an investment in yourself that will pay back exponentially. I’m still on my journey — best of luck on yours.
Autumn, Southern California
Gina Victoria has been a revelation. I didn’t know this kind of healing and growth was possible. She uses breath, touch, and movement to both heal the body and nurture the soul. She has an amazing capacity to be both compassionate and fierce. Speaking as a middle-aged man, I’m most grateful that she has allowed me to approach femininity feeling safe and appreciated, and she’s encouraged – insisted! – that I embrace my masculinity in ways that feel alive, fulfilling, and risky.
I can’t thank her enough for the way she continues to both accept me and to show me how much more I’m capable of – as a father, as a friend, and as a lover. Thanks to her, I’m living with renewed confidence and enjoying my social and my intimate interactions more than ever. Thank you, Gina Victoria, for changing my life.

MY COACHING METHOD

EXPLORE

Explore your inner wold with curiosity, vulnerabiliy, and honesty, discover you core desires, and your road blocks to intimacy
LEARN

Learn how overcome the patterns that keep you tied to expired versions of yourself, embrace your core desires, an embody your full expression of self
PLAY

Putting together all that you have learned and creating an erotic, pleasurable, and playful life